The Crucibles of Leadership
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” — Maya Angelou
Everyone knows that leadership requires vision, strong communication skills, acumen, and strategic thinking, but separating a good leader from an extraordinary one is a trait that is far less cerebral in nature. The adage “when life hands you lemons, make lemonade” has been tossed around so often, it’s almost cliché. But the allegory is reflective of an important personality trait shared by leaders who have reached and sustained some of the greatest levels of success.
I recently reread a leadership article published in the Harvard Business Review: Crucibles of Leadership (Bennis and Thomas, 2002), describing the lemonade out of lemons analogy as “crucibles.” Or rather, the trials and tests that cause a leader to “examine their values, question their most basic assumptions, and hone their judgment.” When viewed through a lens such as this, adversity can be transformational, triggering some leaders to emerge from their trials stronger with a more definitive purpose than ever before.
As public-school leaders committed to equity in education, we must expand our adaptive capacity. Certainly, we have no shortage of opportunities to practice the skills required to look at our adversities and challenges head-on and view them as catalysts for positive change. The article recognizes that these “crucibles” can take many forms including the severity of violence, illness, other traumatic circumstances, and even including moments of self-doubt, although not all crucible experiences are traumatic.
During the hardest of trials, as leaders, we must have the discipline and mindset to look inward and do more than cope with our circumstances. As we grow in our leadership roles, we must stay ready to learn from our difficult experiences without losing hope. We must set our minds on creative ways to make lemonade out of lemons.
One lasting takeaway for me from the article was a clear and compelling acknowledgement: “Everyone is tested by life, but only a few extract strength from their most trying circumstances. They’re the ones we call leaders.”
The first time I saw General Colin Powell standing at the side of President Ronald Reagan in his role as National Security Advisor at the White House, I felt as tall and proud as the four-star General looked. I saw myself reflected in his example. It was profound to see that hard work and perseverance had paid off so remarkably for someone who looked like me, and it helped fuel my fire.
The Wallace Foundation is a national foundation dedicated to supporting and sharing best practices to expand learning and enrichment opportunities for children. As further evidence of their continued commitment, they are doubling down with an estimated $102 million investment in a new initiative to develop principal pipelines for equity-centered leaders that supports eight large, high-needs districts. See ECPI launch announcement at:
“One of the joys of reading is the ability to plug into the shared wisdom of mankind.” — Ishmael Reed.
When written in Chinese, the word ‘crisis’ is composed of two characters. One represents danger and the other represents opportunity. – John F. Kennedy
“Over the years I have become convinced that we learn best—and change—from hearing stories that strike a chord within us… Those in leadership positions who fail to grasp or use the power of stories risk failure for their companies and for themselves.” – John Kotter, Harvard Business School Professor, and author of Leading Change
“I have always believed that the single most important task we have as a nation is to make sure our young people can go as far as their dreams and hard work will take them. It is the single most important thing we can do for our country’s future. And we’ve got to do it together.” President Barack Obama
The national debate about whether or not to teach critical race theory in schools has been in the news and has garnered attention and ire for quite some time. Critical race theory is rooted in academic theory that racism is ingrained in the history of the United States and still impacts laws in place today. Opponents of critical race theory argue that the teaching tells a story, which paints white males as inherently racist, sexist, or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously.
In a recent conversation with a professional acquaintance, I was asked about the difference between coaching and mentoring. At the time, my response was muddled by a flood of memories from my own experiences that has since given me pause to reflect on the vast number of coaches and mentors who have made a significant difference in my life (personally and professionally).